EQ Leadership Frameworks
Actionable tools to help you lead with emotional intelligence and confidence.
I created these templates for engineering leaders who want to make better decisions, build stronger teams, and grow into impactful, respected high-EQ leaders.
Each resource is something I’ve used myself in real leadership situations.
🧭 Guided Decision Canvas
This 3-column canvas helps your team:
- Align on the real problem
- Compare ideas against shared criteria
- Define success before jumping to solutions
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Full breakdown and use cases available in this newsletter post.
🤝 The LEADS Model
This 5-step model helps you:
- Lead with empathy, not ego
- Make fair, values-based decisions
- Stay calm and curious under pressure
- Create space for team voices and insights
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Full breakdown and practical examples available in this newsletter post.
💪 The Integrity Filter
This 3-question EQ tool helps you pause before reacting and lead from your values, not your ego or emotion.
Use it during tough decisions, emotional conversations, or moments where you feel pulled to perform instead of lead.
Ask yourself:
- Is this aligned with my core values, or just my current emotion?
- Would I make the same decision if no one ever found out?
- Am I choosing clarity, or avoiding discomfort?
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Full breakdown and practical examples available in this newsletter post.
🧠 The Projection Pause
The Projection Pause is a 5-question reflection that helps you separate facts from projections and respond with curiosity, not bias. Use it in 1:1s, feedback sessions, or anytime you're tempted to assume someone’s intent or ability.
Ask yourself:
- What was the actual outcome?
- Did I clearly define success?
- What might they be experiencing that I don’t see?
- Are my expectations based on them – or on me?
- How can I ask, not assume?
This framework builds psychological safety and reduces miscommunication—one question at a time.
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Full breakdown and practical examples available in this newsletter post.
🔄 4R Mistake Loop Framework
Mistakes aren't the end – they’re the beginning of real leadership growth.
The 4R Mistake Loop helps you turn failures into trust-building moments that make you and your team stronger.
- Recognize the mistake with honesty – no denial, no deflection.
- Reflect on the root causes and triggers with curiosity, not blame.
- Respond intentionally to repair the damage and rebuild trust.
- Recalibrate your behavior and expectations for the future.
The best leaders don’t hide mistakes – they model how to grow through them.
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Full breakdown and practical examples available in this newsletter post.
📝 The Transparency Check-In
A self-reflection tool to help leaders stay honest – even when it’s uncomfortable.
We all like to believe we’re transparent, but in reality, fear, discomfort, or timing often hold us back. This quick 3-question check-in helps you identify when you’re holding back and offers a small step toward more authentic communication.
Use it during tough conversations, stakeholder updates, or team feedback moments to bring clarity without oversharing. It's not about being brutally honest – it’s about being usefully honest.
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Full breakdown and practical examples available in this newsletter post.
🪞 The Reflection Filter
A quick framework to pause judgment and lead with empathy.
Use this tool when someone triggers a strong reaction in you. These four questions help you shift from assumption to clarity and respond with emotional intelligence.
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Full breakdown and practical examples available in this newsletter post.
🧱 The SPACE Framework
What to do when your feedback doesn’t land.
You gave feedback the right way – calm, specific, respectful – but it triggered defensiveness or denial.
This 5-step EQ tool helps you stay grounded, preserve trust, and return to the conversation when the time is right.
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Full breakdown and practical examples available in this newsletter post.
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